Loving is not just a physical attraction....
" The real lover is the man who can thrill you just by touching your head or smiling into your eyes - or just staring into space." Marilyn Monroe.
One of the most misunderstood women in the world was on the money here. A person who can make you feel affection by just being there has accomplished a magnificent feat. The main one thing that most can ever hope to find is someone to love them for who they are and not someone can offer them.
The time spent with another human being can be pleasurable if it is the right one. Just being on a front- porch swing may be just enough to satisfy being together. People get to caught up in what they can do or where they can go when the simple things are remembered and appreciated more. Don't get me wrong, I love going places and doing things. I have wonderful memories of travel and going out on dates, but it wasn't until I met a man who stepped into my life and had only himself to offer. Spending time with him at the lake talking and sitting on the porch swing at his parent's is some of the most cherished memories I have.
Often times we all neglect to see such simple pleasures and rush to be in a crowd and never getting to know the other person. It's all about presence instead of the time to just spend together. Marilyn has been one of my idols, not because she was a famous woman but because she was genuine.
One of the sexiest things I have seen other than my husband sporting is wedding ring is someone that loves his family in a gentle quietness that is rarely seen. I have seen this in a few when I have been out with their families, the dad's taking time to love their children.
Believe it or not my mind constantly looks for a story in real life. I may not know what that person does or how they live, but you see a picture, a snapshot in your mind of what you have made that life to be. I'm always looking for a story , I look for the simple and the complicated. Everyone but everyone has a story behind them and a love story is only part of it.
God's love story is much different. God's love story is one of sacrifice and pain. He is the very picture of what love should be. Loving someone is not just the physical it's the emotional , it's the ability to love someone and to be willing to sacrifice for that person. If husbands and wives loved each other the way God has loved each of us , think about it. There would be no such things as divorce, there would be no broken families or lives. When a divorce occurs it splinters our very beings. A torn relationship follows you forever affecting not just you but everyone around you.
It's God's intention when a couple is married that it is a lifetime commitment and is only separated in death. It isn't to thought of as if we can't get a long or if we find we don't want to be married we can get a divorce. Other's I guess, look at it as a prison sentence. It should be a happy, joyous relationship not something that is hated or makes one bitter.
The design of marriage was made by God, it was meant for a loving and fulfilling relationship between a husband and his wife. The bond of marriage generated by the creator was for a husband and wife to find pleasure in each other. They use each other for comfort, allowing for them to be a gift to one another being inseparable. He designed Eve for Adam to be part of him and to be a companion. God designed them as being the first marriage.
One of the most misunderstood women in the world was on the money here. A person who can make you feel affection by just being there has accomplished a magnificent feat. The main one thing that most can ever hope to find is someone to love them for who they are and not someone can offer them.
The time spent with another human being can be pleasurable if it is the right one. Just being on a front- porch swing may be just enough to satisfy being together. People get to caught up in what they can do or where they can go when the simple things are remembered and appreciated more. Don't get me wrong, I love going places and doing things. I have wonderful memories of travel and going out on dates, but it wasn't until I met a man who stepped into my life and had only himself to offer. Spending time with him at the lake talking and sitting on the porch swing at his parent's is some of the most cherished memories I have.
Often times we all neglect to see such simple pleasures and rush to be in a crowd and never getting to know the other person. It's all about presence instead of the time to just spend together. Marilyn has been one of my idols, not because she was a famous woman but because she was genuine.
One of the sexiest things I have seen other than my husband sporting is wedding ring is someone that loves his family in a gentle quietness that is rarely seen. I have seen this in a few when I have been out with their families, the dad's taking time to love their children.
Believe it or not my mind constantly looks for a story in real life. I may not know what that person does or how they live, but you see a picture, a snapshot in your mind of what you have made that life to be. I'm always looking for a story , I look for the simple and the complicated. Everyone but everyone has a story behind them and a love story is only part of it.
God's love story is much different. God's love story is one of sacrifice and pain. He is the very picture of what love should be. Loving someone is not just the physical it's the emotional , it's the ability to love someone and to be willing to sacrifice for that person. If husbands and wives loved each other the way God has loved each of us , think about it. There would be no such things as divorce, there would be no broken families or lives. When a divorce occurs it splinters our very beings. A torn relationship follows you forever affecting not just you but everyone around you.
It's God's intention when a couple is married that it is a lifetime commitment and is only separated in death. It isn't to thought of as if we can't get a long or if we find we don't want to be married we can get a divorce. Other's I guess, look at it as a prison sentence. It should be a happy, joyous relationship not something that is hated or makes one bitter.
The design of marriage was made by God, it was meant for a loving and fulfilling relationship between a husband and his wife. The bond of marriage generated by the creator was for a husband and wife to find pleasure in each other. They use each other for comfort, allowing for them to be a gift to one another being inseparable. He designed Eve for Adam to be part of him and to be a companion. God designed them as being the first marriage.
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